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In a letter, a 9-year-old child says she was raped by her father and grandfather: ‘It hurt a lot, but she carried on’ | Paraiba Valley and Region

A 9-year-old child reported being sexually abused by her father and grandfather in São José dos Campos, inside São Paulo. The case was denounced in June this yr and remains to be underneath investigation with out arresting anybody. The child is present process psychological counseling and has reported the abuse in a letter (see above).

The lady’s mom found the abuse whereas doing laundry. Until then the mom by no means suspected that the child was being raped.

“I was doing laundry when I discovered blood stains on her panty. It was stunning, as a result of she nonetheless would not menstruate and as she talks she reveals the injuries her father and grandfather made on her non-public space after they raped her,” stated the mom.

The child described that his father had been abusing him since he was 5 years previous, whereas his grandfather began the violence about two years in the past.

“For a very long time I labored in a mall and that is why dad sorted the children on weekends. The abuse occurred after I was working and he was at house. With his grandfather, the abuse occurred when he wanted me to take him to highschool,” she stated.

The case has been reported to the Women’s Police Station in Sao Jose dos Campos and is being investigated by the Civil Police. After the criticism, the lady’s father fled.

“When I got here to know I rushed to the police station with him and filed a criticism in opposition to his father and grandfather. Even with the exams and exams that confirmed the abuse, her father referred to as me loopy over the telephone, stated she did not do something and that she had already run away earlier than I obtained again from the police station. He left with solely the garments on his again and his driver’s license. It was very stunning and painful to search out out, as a result of they have been two folks I trusted and I by no means doubted that they might do one thing like this.”

The decide issued a protecting order for the child, stopping the father and grandfather from approaching the lady. She is present process psychological counseling and remedy to get well from bodily accidents and forestall sexually transmitted illnesses that she might have been uncovered to.

“I did not even dare to have a look at my daughter’s grandfather’s face. He is my father, I love him. I additionally cherished my husband. It is revolting. I need them each to pay for what they did, they’re each responsible. It’s one thing that has no rationalization.”

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Now that she is aware of in regards to the violence her daughter suffered, the mom says she seen indicators that one thing was occurring to her daughter, but she did not notice it on the time.

“Since she was 5 years previous, she was continuously affected by urinary infections, discharge, but I took her to the emergency room and discovered nothing. His father stated it was regular, as a result of he could not dry himself correctly after showering or due to low immunity, so we ended the remedy every time the an infection appeared, as if it was regular. Today I perceive that from that point he turned a sufferer due to being abused”, he stated.

According to the mom, the father was jealous of his daughter, tremendous protecting and all the time with her. What he thought was a present of affection and affection, he now believes is definitely a strategy to preserve the lady underneath management, fearing that she will reveal the abuse.

“She stated she needed to ask me for assist, but her father was threatening her. He advised her to inform somebody what she was doing, she could be arrested, she must undergo in jail and she would by no means see her or her brothers once more. Will not get, and so he feels responsible and afraid to inform the scenario, trapped. This secret”, stated.

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The mom says that coping with the trauma of years of sexual abuse is tough, even with the assistance of household and psychologists. The lady began having anxiousness assaults and panic assaults when she met the victims.

“He all the time has hassle sleeping, cries at evening, has nightmares and now it is worse, he suffers from anxiousness assaults. Since her father has run away, she fears that he’ll return and wakes up frightened, pondering that he’s in her room, on the window and even on the roof. We are doing psychological follow-up, to deal with this trauma that destroyed his childhood, but it is going to be a lengthy course of”, he stated.

One strategy to specific your self about trauma is thru writing. Unable to talk or draw what she suffered, the lady started to put in writing in regards to the violence she was subjected to. Besides being a reduction, the letters shall be helpful within the investigation.

In a letter, the lady stated that her father and grandfather put their fingers on her non-public components and they tortured her. “It was very painful, I talked to him, but he continued”, the lady described in a part of the letter. The household is now looking for justice and interesting for the arrest of the abusers.

“I need justice, I need it from God on daily basis. Nothing will ever take away my daughter’s trauma, the ache she felt all these years and nonetheless feels. They is not going to must pay something for what they did to an harmless lady, but we will simply begin afresh, lay our heads on the pillow and sleep in peace, when they’re arrested,” he stated.

According to civil police, the lady’s father is 33 years previous and works as a plasterer. He is being investigated for the crime, but has not but been discovered for a assertion. A protecting order was issued, prohibiting him from visiting his daughter.

The grandfather is 78, a retired bricklayer and can also be being investigated for the crime. He has already testified within the case and denied the abuse.

In a observe, the Public Security Secretariat stated the case remains to be being investigated underneath confidentiality on the Women’s Police Station in São José dos Campos. The unit’s group heard the sufferer’s consultant and is awaiting the outcomes of the skilled’s report to research and interpret the info.

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